As important as it is to mingle with our own kind. It is my opinion that we must learn to be comfortable with our singularity.
To dance alone first  ...to experience your life so that you will have something to share when it is time to share...I think kahlil Gibran . Spoke of the spaces between strings on a violin,
Being what made the music so beautiful.

I dance by myself so that I am not always stepping on someone else's toes.